5 Stupid Things that Kenyan Ladies do that Mess up Their Relationships

With this generation Y, relationships are like duties that couples neglect when they feel like it. When a relationship goes wrong the first person everyone blames is the guy. He is a monster, he used to beat me, he used to do this and that, he is the bad guy and i was perfect. NO you were not, and this is why

1. You Treat Him Like He Is Your Husband
You moved in with him and you are not even officially introduced to the parents, you cook for him, you wash his clothes and house, you take care of his manly needs. You turn into his doormat and turn blind eye to whatever crappy things he does. You as a lady are to blame, when he dumps you and you have been together for 5 years, you had it coming. Just don't devote yourself to every man you are dating

2.   You Let Yourself Go
You are the kind of woman who is always dolled up and smells good. You always look like you have just stepped out of the salon every day. It's a shame that after sometime into the relationship, women think its okay to let themselves go. You start going to bed in funny clothes and wrapping your head with stockings and scarf's, you forget to fix your hair, or to shave. At the same time, he is getting less attracted to you.

3. You are a Nag
 You nag your man over and over again over everything. If you are doing this  then your just poisoning your relationship slowly. Because at some point he will get fed up. If you are not getting answers that you want for your questions then let it go.

4.  You are Jealous and Insecure
One of the crucial things that make a woman so attractive is confidence. Now, jealousy and insecurity can ruin your relationship faster than cheating. So as a lady, no matter how jealous you are, just Never show it.

5. Your too Passionate
Being sweet and passionate to your guy is not a bad thing:; it actually makes a man feel loved and wanted. But there is a limit to everything.  When you over do things they just get boring and that is the last thing you want.

7. Being jealous and insecure

 

The website “Tips for Success.Org” says, “Nothing can ruin a relationship or marriage faster than jealously. Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one thinks clearly when jealous.”

 

“Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive,” it adds.

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7. Being jealous and insecure

 

The website “Tips for Success.Org” says, “Nothing can ruin a relationship or marriage faster than jealously. Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one thinks clearly when jealous.”

 

“Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive,” it adds.

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5 Things Ladies Will Never Tell Their Boyfriends

Everyone keeps a secret, so never think your partner is any exemption, even if you think he/she is perfect. Guys, here is the truth to what your girl is not telling you:

1. That she flirts with other men

Girls always like it when someone makes them feel good, sometimes that person may not be you. You may compliment her all the time and even make her feel like she is the most attractive person on earth. But the fact remains; she will feel even more attractive if someone else other than you, tells her so.

It may sound shady but girls do it all the time.It's just one of those shady stuff girls do to boost their ego and most of the time it's usually very innocent. For instance a lady may flirt to get her way, may be with the watchman, in a shop, in a boutique, with a waiter in the bar, or even with a work mate this maybe all harmless but she will never admit she does it. 

2. That money matters to her

Ladies may say that money does not matter to them, and you may fall for it. This is to make your broke ass sleep better at night. Money matters even to you as a man. Every lady wants to be treated right, taken to dinners, bought gifts and spoiled  once in a while. The only reason they never say it it's because they don't want to look like gold diggers at the end of the day. 

3. That She Never Orgasms

No woman will ever tell you you that she does not orgasm, or you have never made her orgasm or your poor in bed for that matter. Many are times that ladies fake orgasms  and your lady is most probably in that bracket. In order to massage your ego as a man she always tells you that you are the best. Dude think again and again because she might just be faking it to the core.

4. Think about their ex

 Relationships never work out all the, this does not mean it was all bad. Let's face it, not all relationships end ugly. So your lady may still have the good memories they had and even miss him. This doesn't mean they still have feelings for them, but this is just proves everybody is human.

5. Hates it when You Don't Dress Up For Her

Men mostly want their ladies to look sexy and dolled up all the time but they do not meet their end. You may see in the streets of Nairobi a lady breaking her legs with six inch heels looking all sexy but the guy is not even dressed up. Your lady may not have the guts to tell you that you should at least look good too, but now you know.