Friday, 11 September 2015

5 Stupid Things that Kenyan Ladies do that Mess up Their Relationships


With this generation Y, relationships are like duties that couples neglect when they feel like it. When a relationship goes wrong the first person everyone blames is the guy. He is a monster, he used to beat me, he used to do this and that, he is the bad guy and i was perfect. NO you were not, and this is why

1. You Treat Him Like He Is Your Husband
You moved in with him and you are not even officially introduced to the parents, you cook for him, you wash his clothes and house, you take care of his manly needs. You turn into his doormat and turn blind eye to whatever crappy things he does. You as a lady are to blame, when he dumps you and you have been together for 5 years, you had it coming. Just don't devote yourself to every man you are dating

2.   You Let Yourself Go
You are the kind of woman who is always dolled up and smells good. You always look like you have just stepped out of the salon every day. It's a shame that after sometime into the relationship, women think its okay to let themselves go. You start going to bed in funny clothes and wrapping your head with stockings and scarf's, you forget to fix your hair, or to shave. At the same time, he is getting less attracted to you.

3. You are a Nag
 You nag your man over and over again over everything. If you are doing this  then your just poisoning your relationship slowly. Because at some point he will get fed up. If you are not getting answers that you want for your questions then let it go.

4.  You are Jealous and Insecure
One of the crucial things that make a woman so attractive is confidence. Now, jealousy and insecurity can ruin your relationship faster than cheating. So as a lady, no matter how jealous you are, just Never show it.

5. Your too Passionate
Being sweet and passionate to your guy is not a bad thing:; it actually makes a man feel loved and wanted. But there is a limit to everything.  When you over do things they just get boring and that is the last thing you want.
7. Being jealous and insecure
 
The website “Tips for Success.Org” says, “Nothing can ruin a relationship or marriage faster than jealously. Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one thinks clearly when jealous.”
 
“Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive,” it adds.
- See more at: http://www.gmanetwork.com/news/story/243012/lifestyle/11-stupid-things-women-do#sthash.5oBtArBz.dpuf

7. Being jealous and insecure
 
The website “Tips for Success.Org” says, “Nothing can ruin a relationship or marriage faster than jealously. Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one thinks clearly when jealous.”
 
“Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive,” it adds.
- See more at: http://www.gmanetwork.com/news/story/243012/lifestyle/11-stupid-things-women-do#sthash.5oBtArBz.dpu